Marriage is supposed to be sacred but the generation we are currently in have not helped matters as people have entered the covenant of marriage having different views.
The popular soccer legend John Fashanu has accused his wife of trying to
kill him – after she allegedly found him bedding two women at the same time.
The retired former Wimbledon and England striker said estranged
Abigail Onyekwelu went for him with a knife during a furious row at their home.
Fashanu, also a former Gladiators host, is now at the centre of a bitter
divorce battle with Abigail – and insists SHE cheated on him with a woman.She denies his claims and the astonishing battle – which includes the accusation
that he bedded their maid – is to be played out in the high court in Abuja, Nigeria.
Accoding to MirrorUK, a furious Abigail, 48, said last night:
“Good riddance to bad rubbish! I’ve left him and washed my
hands.”
But Fashanu, 52 – dubbed Fash the Bash for his hardman
reputation in Wimbledon’s famous “Crazy Gang”
– hit back with an extraordinary series of allegations.
He said he had to call in police to protect him from knife-wielding Abigail and was devastated to find her in bed with another woman. He also alleged that she stole thousands of pounds in cash from their marital home.
Speaking exclusively to the Sunday People the star – who now presents the Nigerian version of TV’s Deal or No Deal – said:
He said he had to call in police to protect him from knife-wielding Abigail and was devastated to find her in bed with another woman. He also alleged that she stole thousands of pounds in cash from their marital home.
Speaking exclusively to the Sunday People the star – who now presents the Nigerian version of TV’s Deal or No Deal – said:
“She attempted to use knives on me. It was terrifying. My
life was at stake, there’s no two ways about that. Even if you did think I was
sleeping with the maid, or even if you thought I was sleeping with Miss Nigeria, don’t
kill me! Just leave me and go. The violence was just too much.”
6ft 2in Fashanu added:
“My life was at risk and I didn’t want it to happen again.
That’s why I filed for divorce.”
He denied his wife’s claim to have discovered him in bed
with two other women – one of them their maid.
“I’ve been very fortunate to date some of the most beautiful
women in the world,” Fash insisted. “I certainly don’t have to sleep with my
cleaner! This is me, John Fashanu, you’re talking to. It’s absolute nonsense.
If she wants to make up that story, at least let her say it’s BeyoncĂ© or
someone. Don’t say it’s my cleaner, that’s just b******s. It’s not true at
all.
The truth is she’s been cheating on me with a woman she
calls her spiritual partner. I caught them in the bed many times. That was why
I kicked her out of my house.”
Abigail is the mother of former beauty queen Adaeze Yobo.
Fashanu met her in 2009. They married two years later but the relationship hit
the skids last year.
Father-of-five Fashanu claimed police are now investigating an attack on him. He also alleged that officers are trying to retrieve missing cash from Abigail. He said:
Father-of-five Fashanu claimed police are now investigating an attack on him. He also alleged that officers are trying to retrieve missing cash from Abigail. He said:
“I’m the one who is filing for divorce. I couldn’t
stand her and, to be honest, she probably couldn’t stand me. With Abigail it
was just money, money, money.
I’ve never seen a woman who has such an appetite for money.
Nearly one million Nigerian naira (around £3,300) was stolen from my house in Abuja. There are police
reports you can see.
There were so many assaults, it was just getting too much.
It was absolutely ridiculous. She attacked me on multiple occasions. The whole
situation was far too hot for me. There are some wonderful, wonderful women.
It’s just that I met the wrong one.”
Glamorous socialite Abigail, a qualified lawyer and
mother-in-law to former Nigerian football captain Joseph Yobo, paints a totally
different picture of the marriage breakdown. The mother of four said:
“John’s saying I tried to kill him? Oh my God, this is so
funny. I don’t quite understand all this. How can I kill him? How can somebody
like me kill this huge man who is an expert in karate. I don’t understand how
I can kill him.”
Told that he had accused her of going to his house armed
with knives before trying to attack him, Abigail retorted: “Oh my God, that is
ridiculous.”
She also rejected Fashanu’s claim that he threw her out of his house after finding her in bed with another woman. Abigail said:
She also rejected Fashanu’s claim that he threw her out of his house after finding her in bed with another woman. Abigail said:
“He didn’t kick me out of his house. We were living in my
house. He couldn’t have kicked me out of my own house – I kicked him out.”
Of the woman concerned, she insisted:
“She is a good friend to me. She has a husband and children.
It is ridiculous. She was living with me for a while to get back on her feet.”
Abigail went on:
“I caught him in bed with two women, the housemaid and one
other woman. There were two women, it was awful. They were on the bed. They
were undressed. I said to them, ‘Who are you and what’s going on here?
He told me that he doesn’t know what he’s doing and I should
pray for him. He knows how to manipulate people, that’s one thing he is good
at. I last saw him in April last year. I didn’t know he’d filed for divorce. He
has been calling people asking them to plead with me to get back with
him.
I would have filed for divorce myself but I haven’t because
I’ve been very busy. And he asked me not to because he did not want to make it
known that we had separated. So I went on my way and I left him but I didn’t
tell anybody anything.
I’ve told him, ‘I don’t want you any more, I have forgiven
you, I’m a Christian. But I don’t want you any more, just leave me alone.’ I
don’t take him seriously. I don’t have time for him. If I should be angry at
anyone, I should be angry at myself for descending so low as to enter into
marriage with such a person.”
Responding to claims she stole money from Fashanu, Abigail
added:
“Anybody can say anything – but how can I go to his house
and steal from him in his house? I wasn’t living there with him. He’s sick and
he needs help.”
Fashanu was born in London to
a Guyanan nurse, Pearl,
and Nigerian barrister, Patrick. After they split up he had a spell in a
Barnado’s home and was fostered in Norfolk.
His first marriage, to Ivory
Coast model Melissa Kassa-Mapsi, ended in
divorce in 2004. Now Fashanu is a famous and respected figure in Africa.
He has carried out extensive charity work and is understood to have been a friend of Nelson Mandela.
He is a UN Ambassador for Nigeria, a former Unicef goodwill ambassador for 53 African countries and a former board member of the Nigeria Football Association. He also worked to develop professional football across Africa and was Nigeria’s Ambassador for Sport and Tourism. Fashanu now presents the Deal or No Deal Nigeria game show on The Africa Channel and is a successful businessman with interests in London and Abuja.
But the star suffered heartbreak when his brother Justin, who was Britain’s first openly gay professional footballer, hanged himself in London in 1988. After his brother’s suicide, Fashanu expressed remorse for disowning him because of his homosexuality. But he later claimed he did not believe Justin was genuinely gay.
Wife Abigail claims he has fathered six children by three different women.
Meanwhile he added:
He has carried out extensive charity work and is understood to have been a friend of Nelson Mandela.
He is a UN Ambassador for Nigeria, a former Unicef goodwill ambassador for 53 African countries and a former board member of the Nigeria Football Association. He also worked to develop professional football across Africa and was Nigeria’s Ambassador for Sport and Tourism. Fashanu now presents the Deal or No Deal Nigeria game show on The Africa Channel and is a successful businessman with interests in London and Abuja.
But the star suffered heartbreak when his brother Justin, who was Britain’s first openly gay professional footballer, hanged himself in London in 1988. After his brother’s suicide, Fashanu expressed remorse for disowning him because of his homosexuality. But he later claimed he did not believe Justin was genuinely gay.
Wife Abigail claims he has fathered six children by three different women.
Meanwhile he added:
“I filed the divorce petition in September and it’s listed
for mention on the 19th of next month at the court in Abuja. We’re trying to move it through.”
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